One
of the most often-repeated talmudic aphorisms notes that “all Israel is
responsible for each other,” a noble sentiment, surely, but one that most of us
set into a set of larger and smaller concentric circles of obligation: we feel
most of all responsible for our closest family members, then for more distant
relatives, then for neighbors, then for the other members of the faith- or
ethnic group with which we identify the most strongly, then for the other
citizens of our country, and then for all humankind. Some of us go one step
further too and include the inanimate world as well in the scheme, promoting
the conviction that, as part of collective humanity, we have a kind of
corporate responsibility not solely for the other residents of our planet, but
for the planet itself. Eventually, in some distant age, the circle will
probably widen to an even greater extent to allow for feelings of
responsibility directed towards the inhabitants of the other populated planets
with whom we will eventually learn that we share our galaxy.
None
of the above will strike anyone as at all controversial. And even if some
specific people might well order their circles differently—feeling more
responsible for neighbors than for distant relatives, for example—the concept
itself that responsibility for people other than ourselves inheres in our
humanness hardly sounds like an even remotely debatable proposition. But saying wherein that responsibility lies
exactly—and how that sense of responsibility should manifest itself in law—is
another question entirely.
The
system of common law that undergirds American jurisprudence holds that one
commits a crime by doing some specific illegal thing, not to failing to do something...and
this principle applies even when the thing not done involves coming to the aid
of someone in distress. There are, however, several exceptions to the rule. If
you yourself are personally responsible for the other party being in
distress, then you are in most cases deemed responsible to come to that
person’s aid. Parents have an obligation to rescue their children from peril,
as do all who act in loco parentis (like the administration of a child’s
school or the staff in a child’s summer camp). Spouses have an obligation to
rescue each other from peril. Employers have an obligation to come to the aid
of workers imperiled in the workplace. In some places, property owners have a
similar obligation of responsibility towards people invited onto that property;
in others, that obligation extends even to unwanted visitors like trespassers. Otherwise,
there is no specific legal obligation to come to the assistance of others. And
this is more or less the way American law has evolved as well: other than with
respect to the specific exceptions mentioned above and in Vermont, people are
generally deemed to have no legal obligation to assist others in distress, much
less to risk their own wellbeing to do so. Indeed, although all fifty states, plus
the District of Columbia, have so-called Good Samaritan laws on the books that
protect individuals who come to the aid of others from subsequent prosecution
in the event of mishap, or some version of such laws, Vermont is the sole state
to have a law on the books that actually requires citizens to step forward to
help when they see others in peril or distress.
These
last several weeks, I have been following with great interest the case in Taunton,
Massachusetts, that culminated in the conviction of involuntary manslaughter of
Michelle Carter, 20, in a case that involved a suicide for which she was not
present and which her lawyers argued she therefore could not have prevented,
but for which the court deemed her in some sense responsible nonetheless.
The
story is a sad one from every angle. It revolves around two troubled teenagers
who met while vacationing in Florida and subsequently began an intense
twenty-first-century-style relationship that was primarily conducted digitally
through emails and text messages. (After returning home to Massachusetts, the
two only met in person on a few rare occasions.) But digital though their
relationship may primarily have been, it was clearly intense. She was suffering
from an eating disorder; he suffered from suicidal tendencies and had actually
attempted suicide before, which fact he disclosed to her. At first, she was
supportive and encouraged him to seek counseling and not to harm himself. But at
a certain point, she became convinced—and we are talking about a teenager here
not a mature adult, let alone a trained therapist—she became convinced
that suicide was the right solution to her friend Conrad’s problems. And so she
encouraged him, as any friend would, to do the right thing. “You can’t think
about it,” she texted him on the day of his death. “You have to do it. You said
you were gonna do it. Like I don’t get why you aren’t.”
Convinced
that she was right, Conrad drove his truck to the secluded end of a K-Mart
shopping plaza and prepared to asphyxiate himself with the fumes from his
truck’s exhaust. And then we get to the crucial moment, at least in the judge’s
opinion. Suddenly afraid and apparently wishing not to die, or at least willing
to rethink his commitment to dying, Conrad got out of the truck and phoned his
friend Michelle. Her response was as clear as it was definitive: “Get back in,”
she told him. And he did, dying soon after that.
Was
she responsible for his death? You could say that she did not force his hand in
any meaningful way, that she merely told him to do something that he could have
then chosen not to do. Or you could say that she had his life in her hands at
that specific moment and that she chose to do nothing—not to phone his parents,
for example, or 911—and thus was at least in some sense complicit in his death.
“The time is right and you’re ready…just do it, babe,” she had texted him
earlier in the day. That, in the judge’s opinion, was just talk. But when
Conrad’s life was hanging in the balance—when he was standing outside the cab
of his truck and talking on the phone as the cab filled with poison gas—and she
could have exerted herself to save his life but chose instead to encourage him
to get back in—that, the judge ruled, constituted involuntarily manslaughter in
the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. And, as a result, Michelle Carter is facing
up to twenty years in prison.
Involuntarily
manslaughter, defined as behavior manifesting extreme indifference to human
life that leads to the death of another, seemed to the judge to suit the
details of this case. But what if Michelle truly believed that Conrad would be
better off dead, that the dead rest in peace or reside in a state of ongoing
bliss in heaven? What if she felt it was his right to die on his own terms and
when he wished? What if she felt that he was right in his estimation that he
would be better off dead than alive? Should she be held responsible for his
death if she felt she truly believed any of the above? As someone who has
spoken in public countless times about the dead resting in peace and their
souls being resident in paradise beneath the protective wings of God’s enduring
presence, there is something deeply unsettling for me personally even to ask
that question aloud! Surely, I could answer, the metaphoric lyricism we bring
to our efforts to deprive death of its sting aren’t meant to be taken literally,
and certainly not to the point at which the taking of an unhappy person’s life
feels like a justifiable decision! But what if someone did take them literally
and then, not actually acting, chose not to act because of them—should that be
considered criminal behavior?
I am
neither a lawyer nor a legal scholar, so I won’t offer an opinion about the verdict
in the Carter case per se, other than to note that
the verdict is controversial and may ultimately be reversed. But the burning question that smolders at the
core of the matter—what it ultimately means to be responsible for
another—is not something anyone who claims to be a moral person can be at peace
being unable to answer. The sense of the interconnectedness of all living
things that we reference so blithely in daily discourse can serve as the platform
on which all who would enter the discussion may stand. And, surely, the
responsibility towards others that develops naturally from our sense of society
as a network of closer and more distant relationships is undeniably real.
Still, it feels oddly difficult—both morally and apparently legally—to
say precisely what it means for one individual to bear responsibility
for another.
The
most-often repeated commandment in the Torah requires the faithful to be kind
to the stranger, to the “other,” to the person who is not yourself…which is all
people. Theologically, being solicitous of the wellbeing of others is a way of
acknowledging the image of God stamped on all humankind. Whether criminalizing
the willful decision to look away from that divine image is a good idea, or a
legally sound one, is a decision for jurists, not rabbis. But the notion that
all behavior that shows disrespect, disregard, or contempt for others—and thus denies
the principle that all human life is of inestimable value regardless of any
individual’s circumstances—is inconsonant with the ethical values that should
undergird society is something we all can and should affirm. When the Torah
commands that the faithful Israelite “choose life” over death, it is specifically
commanding that the faithful ever be ready to step into the breach to save a
life in peril and thus to affirm our common createdness in God and the responsibility
towards each other that derives directly from that belief.